Chris and I went to a lovely dinner last night with the group that went to the Balkans and all of their spouses. This group is diverse with so many different faiths contributing to the discussion of conflict, how society deals with it, and how can we apply this knowledge to our own community. What a change in pace for my little world. One small group was outside discussing feminist theology and great women thinkers in the movement. Another group was inside discussing polygamy in the Muslim faith. That was all before dessert. The larger group had an interesting discussion after dessert about conflict in the Balkans and real-life applications of this knowledge in our home. I am so glad that Chris is able to be a part of these talks. What a wonderful group of people to be willing to put their own beliefs aside for the moment to hear and learn about another. If only more people did this, there wouldn’t be conflict.
But here is what I learned . . . I have many skills in life that I am good at and as much as I enjoyed listening to this group last night (and trust me that is all I did!), this world is not for me. I do not want to solve to world’s problems, but I am a great supporter for those who do. We need these people in our lives to solve the bigger picture in our world, community, and churches. What I am good at is raising the next generation, to stoke the fires at home, and be a supporter to my husband in all of his endeavors.
The real-life applications for everything that Chris has learned and is learning is huge and fabulous and meaningful. I am so grateful that he had and has the opportunity to be a part of this journey with so many wonderful people. And I will continue to be the faithful supporter to the greater world and follow what God has called me to do. It may seem little and meaningless compared to others who are helping to solve the greater problems of our society but I know that what I do is important and meaningful to myself, my family, and the next generation.
The Puddles 
WOW kath, that is deep—do you need some coffee or something:} great insight, thanks for the thoughts
I have many friends who have retired from careers with a nice pension coming in every month. I have measly Social Security in a pathetic amount…why? because for the most part I stayed home with my children and made them my #1 priority but I wouldn’t trade my children’s childhoods for any amount of retirement benefits. Sometimes I think maybe I should have pursued a career but on close examination I did choose a career…just not one usually associated with “success”. Hang in there and keep doing what you are doing. I admire you for it and feel the kindred spirit.